There’s a myth that has been circulating over the last few decades is that women aren’t as interested in sex as men.
Societal conditioning has imposed a peculiar fiction as truth, whereby men are shallow, horny dogs who are desperate for sex all the time – and women are pure-thinking angels who are only interested in an emotional relationship, and not really interested in sex.
This is total B.S. – it’s simply not true.
Women want sex and enjoy sex just as much as men do. Women absolutely love sex, make no mistake – perhaps even more than men. And knowing how to get a girl to sleep with you is not as complicated as you might think…
Once a girl is sufficiently attracted to you, she simply requires two further things:
(a) To feel safe
Generally speaking, men are not at risk sexually in their day to day lives. But women are constantly at sexual risk throughout their lives. At worst, a woman faces the danger of being raped by a man, but there are many lesser things too – a guy coming onto her too strong in a bar, a guy being too rough in bed, a creepy guy stalking her, or even just being leered at in the street everywhere she goes.
Sex carries negative connotations as well as positive ones for women, much more so than it does for men. Hence women need to feel comfortable and safe with a man before sleeping with him.
(b) To not look or feel like a slut
Men are biologically designed to spread their seed, and could produce hundreds of children (by different mothers) in any given year, without any direct physical inconvenience. Women can only produce one child every year or so, and being pregnant is a huge physical burden. Sex therefore carries a much greater risk in terms of resources for women than it does for men.
As a consequence, promiscuity is perceived differently as between the sexes. I’m sure we’re all aware of the “stud / slut syndrome”… men who sleep with lots of girls are studs, which is perceived as a good thing. Women who sleep with lots of men are sluts – which is perceived as a bad thing.
Women’s safety and anti-slut barriers come up automatically in their interactions with men. So as well as being the kind of man that is attractive to women, and making her feel safe, to get a girl to sleep with you also requires making her feel she can do so without looking or feeling like a slut.
To put it very simply: Your job is to be an attractive man who she can sleep with without any negative consequences.
And once those negative consequences are removed, women absolutely love sex. It’s amazing to see it once you’ve made a woman feel sexually comfortable with you – they can be real animals.
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Happy hunting,
Ryan
