Learning how to be more confident with girls always starts from the inside.
Your reality, mindset and beliefs concerning any area of life have a huge impact on your success in that area.
This goes for all things – your career, your social life, your love-life, even your health to some extent.
This is due to the extraordinary power of your subconscious mind, and the way it operates in tandem with your conscious mind. When your subconscious has been imprinted with any particular “truth”, it will work very hard to ensure that that “truth” does play out in real life.
I’m not talking about anything even remotely mystical here – I’m not suggesting you can control matter with your mind or anything loopy like that. I’m definitely not a fan of “The Secret” or any of that quasi-science stuff. But make no mistake: whilst your subconscious may not have any power over the outside world, it does have enormous power over YOU.
Here’s what happens:
(a) The “truths” you store in your subconscious (the things you believe deep down) have a big impact on your motivation, your choice of actions and even your skill levels/abilities, and
(b) Your subconscious filters out any information (anything going on around you) that contradicts the set of truths you have stored in there, and focuses your attention on the things that support those “truths”.
Let me give you an example…
Say you believe deep down that you’re not an attractive man. Your subconscious takes hold of that “truth” and does its very best to ensure this “truth” plays out in your real life experience. Behind the scenes it ensures you become nervous and shy around women, that you inadvertently display weak body language, that your voice tone and posture are unattractive, and that you generally come across as insecure and lacking confidence.
Not only that, but it also filters your experience with women to fit the “truth” – meaning that it focuses your attention on the women in the bar who are ignoring you, whilst filtering OUT the women in the bar who are actually checking you out (making you disregard or disbelieve them).
It sounds simplistic, but it’s true. What you put into your subconscious really does seem to be what you get out the other end in real life. If you store negative beliefs about yourself and women in there, then you’ll continue to fail. And that failure will further strengthen those negative beliefs, in a downward spiral.
But if you store lots of positive beliefs about yourself and women in there, then you’ll start seeing more success. Which of course then further boosts those positive beliefs, creating a fantastic upward spiral to more and more success. So you need to reprogram your subconscious with better “mental software” – cram it full of positive beliefs.
The whole of Part 3 of the Attraction Playbook is dedicated to the topic of reprogramming your subconscious to ensure better success with women. So if you want to learn how to be more confident with girls, go ahead and download your free copy now.
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Happy hunting,
Ryan
