Every guy wants to know how to be attractive to girls. But there is so much misinformation out there, it can be very confusing…
Is it possible to be a good guy and still get the girl?
Even though we hate jerks, they seem to do pretty well with the ladies… so do you have to be a jerk to be attractive to girls?
I want to clear this up once and for all. So listen up…
There are many positive traits that all human beings should have… but that don’t trigger attraction. Things like honesty, trustworthiness, loyalty and kindness. I call these things “Good Guy Traits”. If you lack Good Guy Traits, then you need to take a good hard look at yourself and the way you’re going about your life. If you’re dishonest, untrustworthy or cruel, then that’s not cool.
But you also need to realize that Good Guy Traits have ZERO impact on whether a woman will feel attracted to you.
Sure, a woman will think you’re a good person if you have those traits. She will think you’d make a good friend if you have those traits. A woman will think she can trust and rely on you. But they will NOT make her feel any more sexually attracted to you.
Sexual attraction trumps logic every single time, no exceptions.
So what does make girls feel attracted to a particular guy? His physical looks are only about 10% of the equation (trust me, I know…) The truth of the matter is that there are particular personality and behavioral traits that spark the feeling of attraction in women.
Let’s call them the “Attractive Traits”. Here they are, listed in no particular order:
1. Confident
2. Composed
3. Leading & Decisive
4. Independent & Secure
5. Interesting & Fun
6. High Social Status
7. Challenging
8. Preselected By Other Women
9. Sexually Aware
10. Good in bed
Each of these traits, when displayed by a man, will trigger feelings of attraction in women. And when a guy displays all of them, he will be irresistible to almost all women.
The particular mixture of Good Guy Traits and Attractive Traits that a man displays will result in him falling somewhere along the following spectrum:
Nice Guy ——————————- Dream Guy ———————————- Jerk
(a) The Nice Guy – has plenty of the Good Guy traits, but none of the Attractive Traits.
(b) The Jerk – has plenty of the Attractive Traits but none of the Good Guy Traits.
(c) The Dream Guy – has plenty of both the Good Guy Traits AND the Attractive Traits.
It’s that sweet spot in the middle that you want to hit.
The Dream Guy is the perfect blend – he is the best of both worlds. He’s not only sexually attractive, but he’s a good person too. He is the sort of man that most girls dream of marrying. The sort of man who they not only fall in love with, but who they are happy to bring home to mom too.
The Jerk gets lots of girls, but his relationships tend to crash and burn. The Nice Guy gets nothing at all. The Dream Guy gets any girl he wants, for as long as he wants.
Of course, the REAL trick is to learn how to quickly and effectively display Attractive Traits to a girl without having to spend months getting to know her first.
It is crucial that you know what works and what doesn’t work, because if you do the WRONG things in your first few interactions with a girl, you’ll kill your chances with her permanently.
So go ahead and download your free copy of the Attraction Playbook now, and discover exactly how to be attractive to girls. It’s jam-packed with 70+ pages of powerful tactics you can use to make any woman want you.
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Happy hunting,
Ryan
